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Tag Archives: Martha Beck

Worshiping at the altar of busy

03 Sunday Jun 2012

Posted by Carla in managing time

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busy, crazy-busy, Martha Beck, oneness, retreats, too busy, wordlessness

It’s funny, I was talking to a good friend about my crusade against the word “crazy-busy” and this idea of everyone telling everyone else how busy they are all the time, like it’s a badge of honor.

And surprisingly, she said, “Do you know how embarrassing it is not to be busy?  What are you supposed to tell people?”

Oh. Right.  That’s how we show that all is well in our culture.  A packed calendar, a list of accomplishments – a whole lot of doing, doing, doing.  We’re fine – we’re  just so busy!

Me – I’m starting to rebel against this kind of thinking. For the past bunch of years, I’ve been slowly chipping away at this concept. Now when people ask, “How are you?  Really busy?”  I’ve stopped saying, “Oh, yeah. Things are just so busy.” Because I really don’t want to live that way anymore.

Sure, sometimes I’m still busy, and sometimes my days are super-full.  But I’m not all proud of it anymore.  In fact, when my calendar gets too stuffed, I get honest with myself about what’s going on that’s led me to pile up so many appointments or commitments.  I get really curious.  Especially if I’m saying yes to everyone but myself.

I know what you might be thinking – that you don’t have any choice.  That there’s absolutely nothing you can do to escape the modern scourge of busyness.  Or that if you do elect to be less busy, that you’ll be excluded, ostracized, shunned. And God forbid you don’t sign your kids up for every available sport, activity, party, etc. Really – if we weren’t busy with all of this stuff, what would we post on Facebook?  Pictures of us finally getting enough sleep???

If you are craving a weekend of less busy and more you, with time to think and reflect and perhaps create a new reality for yourself by figuring out how to say yes to what you really want and no to what you don’t,  consider joining me for my Clarity and Connections retreat in beautiful St. Francisville, LA, July 27-29.  A small group of women gaining clarity about what we really want and connecting with nature, ourselves and each other.  With waterfalls included!  Check out the details here.

I’ve designed it for me – what I mean is that it’s exactly what I want when I’m craving  a weekend to press my own internal reset button.  There will be plenty of Wordlessness à la Martha Beck, plus free time to lounge and reflect, along with some powerful tools that will give you major clarity, fast, even if like me, you’re already sold on the idea of backing off on busy.

$99 reserves your spot, and there’s still time to get the early bird rate! Click here to go to the information page.

And I’d love to hear your thoughts about busyness.  How are you dealing with it in your daily life?

Calling the animals part 1

25 Sunday Mar 2012

Posted by Carla in nature, oneness, walks, wordlessness

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calling animals, Finding Your Way in a Wild New World, Martha Beck, oneness, owls barred owl, swamp, wordless walks, wordlessness

The animals I called for my wordless walks two months ago were the deer, and it’s funny – while I rarely used to see deer when I went to the swamp, now they come.  Almost every time.  I saw six or seven two days ago.  I still don’t really believe it works, but it’s a fun game and I enjoy making “oneness” connections with the animals, even if it could all be chalked up to coincidence.

This time, I didn’t call anyone in particular.  I sort of sent a “surprise me” sentiment out to the universe.  And almost immediately a great blue heron lifted off and flew gracefully through the trees.  I whooshed in a breath of wonder.  Then as I walked a little further, I heard what sounded like dragons.  I am not kidding.  Turns out that they were a passel of young wild pigs, some all black and some tan with black spots, like something out of a children’s’ story. They ran off too quickly for me to get a photo, but I heard and saw them twice, snuffling and grunting and snorting and splashing through the flooded forest.  What a cool surprise – I’ve never ever seen pigs at the swamp!

I waded through shin-deep water for over a mile, relishing my Amazon-like adventure, and noting that I’d need to choose a different trail for my wordless walk the next day. I wondered where the armadillos had gone – there was so much water and so little high ground.  I’m sure they know what to do and had taken refuge somewhere.

Eventually, I headed to a less remote, far more civilized, fully boardwalked trail, and even a small portion of it was under water!  I walked amidst myriad lizards and snakes.  I surprised two small alligators who splashed off the boardwalk- I don’t know who scared who, it happened so fast!

On the way back, I thought – ok – I would love to see an owl.  I sent a request for an owl, wordlessly.  I don’t even know quite what I did.  And then I dropped attachment and kept walking.  Sure enough, a few minutes later, there was my owl.  As I crept closer, she glided silently away through the cypresses further up the trail.  But when I quietly rounded the next bend, there she was, perched and watching me, then turning to gaze down into the water.  I did my best barred owl call and I can only describe the owl’s expression as bemused – like, “Really?  You expect me to believe you are an owl??” But she didn’t fly away.  The owl ignored me and stared down into the water, perhaps eying her next meal.

She stared at me while I called to her, then went back to watching the water below.

Whether the heron, pigs, deer and owl came for me or for themselves doesn’t really matter — I’m just so glad I had the gift of a moment to enjoy watching them. Give it a try next time you’re outside.  Call the animals and see if they come.  You can read more about wordlessness and oneness and techniques to connect to the natural world in Martha Beck’s book, Finding Your Way in a Wild New World.  And watch for announcements- I’m going to start up a new Wild World virtual book club soon!

Also coming soon: More animal calling stories and shared wordless walks from some of you!  It’s not too late to send me stories or pictures from your own wordless walk – I’d love to hear!  Email me at carla@livingwildandprecious.com .

Lastly, tomorrow (Monday) this blog is going to move to self-hosted so I have a little more ability to do some cool things with it.  My only worry is that I won’t know how to do said cool things, so if anything seems a little wonky for the next while, you’ll know why.  I’m hoping for a super-smooth transition, but I know I have some skills to learn too.  Wish me luck and I’ll hopefully be checking in again very soon!

Real worldless walk this Saturday!

20 Tuesday Mar 2012

Posted by Carla in nature, wordlessness

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Jean Lafitte National Park, Martha Beck, wordless walk, wordlessness

Virtual is nice, but real is so much better, don’t you think? So let’s all take a real wordless walk this weekend!  If you’re in the NOLA area, you can join me this Saturday morning, March 24, at 9 a.m. at Jean Lafitte National Park at the Pecan Grove parking lot.  Dress for the weather and be ready to get your feet wet or muddy.  What a perfect way to slow down after the wildness of St. Patrick’s Day and Super Sunday, and celebrate the first official week of Spring!

And if you’re not close by, I have a cool proposal for this weekend:  Go on your own wordless walk. Go by yourself or with a friend or two.  Do it in your yard, or a nearby park, or even in the middle of the city. Take a photo or two of your beautiful setting or something wonderful you find and email it to me at carla@livingwildandprecious.com and I’ll compile the images so we can share what we noticed.  And tell me what happened when you were truly wordless and softened your vision and opened to all of your senses.  I’ll be so excited to hear what you discover!

If you need to know how to take a wordless walk (but really, there are no rules) click here for some tips to get started: If you have a copy of Finding Your Way in a Wild New World by Martha Beck, you can read further about bringing yourself into wordlessness. Have fun and treat yourself to the peacefulness that comes with stilling your mind and drenching your senses.  And I can’t wait to hear from you!

Wordless walk #8

20 Tuesday Mar 2012

Posted by Carla in nature, walks, wordlessness

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butterfly, Gulf fritillary, Martha Beck, orange butterfly, photography, virtual wordless walk, wordless walk, wordlessness

Wordless Walk #7

19 Monday Mar 2012

Posted by Carla in nature, walks, wordlessness

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Anolis carolinensis, green anole, lizard, Martha Beck, photography, virtual wordless walk, wordless walk, wordlessness

 

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